Thursday, March 6, 2008

Adopt-a-Family


When I got home tonight I sat on the couch to relax after work and holding Megan. Soon after, I received a phone call from our college pal Mark who wanted to drop off a lasagna, an e-mail from our bible study friends the Parkers who also wanted to donate some meals to our cause, a package from my old high school chum Laura, who now lives in Iowa, and some preemie onesies in the mail from our friend and Jillian's sorority sister Allison, a pediatrician (guess who our frantic 3 am phone calls are going to when our own pediatrician stops taking them?).

We can't seem to say thank you enough. Jill's mom took off tonight after cleaning our house and helping to finish organizing the nursery. I told someone I feel like Sally Struthers is going to show up at our door at any moment with a film crew to shoot a documentary. "For as little as a dollar a day, you too can help support this middle-class, suburban family as they raise and care for their child. See that in the corner? Their cable system is only slightly above basic. It doesn't have any of the movie channels. How can they survive on just 200 channels alone? The horror! Act now and you'll receive a complimentary picture of the family you have adopted with periodic updates on your adopted family's progress."

Or at least that's how I imagine it would go. But rest assured we have a beautiful list of everything you have graciously given us (in mandatory Type-A fashion, I believe Jillian will be creating a spreadsheet on it tomorrow morning) and as soon as I stop spending every waking moment either working, holding Megan, or updating this blog so my mom stops worrying when she doesn't hear an update for more than 24 hours, I will thank each and every one of you properly.

I do want to publicly thank my grandfather for 'locating' that elusive car seat for us. It was meant as the set-up for a joke about how unprepared we were, I wasn't trying to push for one, but within a few days we had, literally, FOUR offers of people who were going to drive/mail/build us a car seat. I was floored. But now, everybody can breathe easier. When Megan is allowed to come home, she has a first-class seat waiting for her.



What's that? You don't care about all that drivel? You want a baby update? Fine. She continues to be the beacon of beauty in the Special Care Nursery at the hospital. I swear her hair grows longer every day. At this rate, by summer her new nickname will be Rapunzel. She continues to expand her appetite. She's up to 70 mL per feeding. This sounded like a lot to me. Seventy of anything is a lot. Especially when she started out eating only 5 mL. So, since I'm American and have thus far refused to convert to the much more simple to understand metric system, I asked what the equivalent was for a xenophobe like me. The nurse said it was about two ounces. Dang. Here I am all impressed with 70 mL and I find out that I take a bigger swig of mouthwash in the morning than she's eating. All joking aside, she is gaining weight though which makes us ecstatic. She has regained her birthweight and is now working on reaching her goal of 5 pounds in order to be ready for the swimsuit season this Spring.

All fingers are still crossed that this Tuesday will be her release date. We don't have proof that it will be, but we've decided in our heads that this will be the day. Power of positive thinking.

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

look at her! she's rocking out! love it! i'm thinking tuesday too!

Gram said...

Thanks for the update, Brian.

You know, I think it's an operant conditioning effect. Until we had email and cell phones, we didn't miss 24/7 communication. Now you gave us this blog and in true BF Skinner fashion, I want more! What can I say?

I love the new pics and know Sue hated to leave you. I can't wait to see you again in 10 days or so. And now that I know you are home for 3 days in a row...

Claire said...

I don't think I have ever seen a cuter sleeping baby as that first picture! I'm so glad she's eating well and gaining weight. I hope you and Jill are getting a chance to take care of yourselves too!

-Claire

Laura said...

She is the picture of beauty-- of course meaning she looks like Jillian. =) Think that she'll give Max her number in 15 years? Or will she be into a younger Man with Baby J on the way? Glad you're hanging in and keeping all updated. Can't wait 'till you get her home! --Laura

parsons said...

I can't wait for seven years from now and I have to explain operant conditioning and BF Skinner to Megan when she reads these comments.

"You see Megan, Gram is an academian ... they talk in big words."

Just kidding mom ... I agree wholeheartedly with you. Hence why Blackberrys are named 'crackberries', etc.

Gram said...
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Gram said...

Bonjour Brian. Je suis heureux de savoir que Megan sera lecture et étude de ce blog. Ici une leçon française pour elle!

parsons said...

Merci mama. Vous avez raison. Le plus tôt sera le mieux.

parsons said...

And for the rest of you ... perhaps context clues allowed you to figure out, but my mother said she is giving Megan her first french lesson via the blog. And I agreed ... the sooner the better.

Sarah and Jake said...

Megan, Sweet and Soon - A Sonnet by Jake Speed

Her eyes are dew drop drips amidst a drought.
Her fingers, twigs on budding cherry tree.
Her lips, the puckered apple blossom sprout.
Her ears are halves of tiny walnut seeds.
Her nose, a grape upon the nestled vine.
Her hair, the fuzz of pussywillow bloom.
Her cheeks, the rouge of sunset o'er the Rhine.
Her toes, a tiny caterpillar plume.
The stork in sky on early flight did fly,
And sailed on sunny wings of breathless swoon,
Delivering the dearest morning sigh...
A darling daughter, Megan, sweet and soon.
May life for you fall fanciful in rhyme,
And next time, may you come to town on time.